I am pretty ignorant of the ethics of providing defense as a defense attorney.

I am pretty ignorant of the ethics of providing defense as a defense attorney.

* Triggers all over the place…warning.

This was extremely difficult to listen to, and enlightening​.

I’d make a horrible defense attorney.

I honestly could not do this job.

I was shocked because I had no idea that they couldn’t disclose information they’d found.

In this instance, the attorney saw the body of one of the victims, with his own eyes.

As a parent, as a….just “me”….. I could not do this job.

Here is the other article for those who want to stop laying guilt trips, or want to give it to someone.

Here is the other article for those who want to stop laying guilt trips, or want to give it to someone.

Since I’ve already talked to my parent about this multiple times, I’ve just adapted to not buying the ticket to the guilt trip.

If you have a parent who employed the much hated and feared “Guilt Trip” it may feel like it’s an expected normal…

If you have a parent who employed the much hated and feared “Guilt Trip” it may feel like it’s an expected normal part of your adult world….

It’s not.

Parents, mates, friends, and adult children who use guilt trips are using emotional manipulation and it’s not o.k.

There are healthy ways for people to get heard it have their needs, wants, desires met….guilt trips feel bad, and can produce negative long term damage, and hurt feels.

Guilt trips are not remotely the same thing as someone holding you accountable for behavior…they are manipulations designed to get you feeling badly, to get attention and to get you to do something or feel something as payment or punishment.

Guilt trips, like trying to make someone jealous, aren’t very helpful, healthy, or successful….and they are definitely damaging.

As a shark raised in the guilt trip environment, I am sensitive to the signs and behaviors of those who use them…and it frequently signals depression, deep anxiety, and distress.

It takes a lot of awareness and mindfulness to learn how to navigate guilt trippers.

My empathy to those of you dealing with it now.

I am envious of those of you that have parents that do not do this.



It’s a good idea to write an eugoooogley so it describes WHO the person was, what they loved…..

It’s a good idea to write an eugoooogley so it describes WHO the person was, what they loved…..

Fighting with Angels: Why Language is Essential in Obituary Writing | The Order of the Good Death

http://www.orderofthegooddeath.com/fighting-with-angels-why-language-is-essential-in-obituary-writing

Leaving is a PROCESS, and it takes a plan with help and anonymity.

Leaving is a PROCESS, and it takes a plan with help and anonymity.

“I WILL KILL YOU” is very real…check my earlier posts.

Next time you ask ‘why doesn’t she just leave?’ – remember this picture – The i newspaper online iNews

https://inews.co.uk/opinion/comment/next-time-wonder-doesnt-just-leave-remember-picture/amp/

Thank you my friend, W.R.